Real men do not equal yaoi when put together. Kinky and incredibly hot yes, yaoi no.
And just for reference.. if you can get over some of the fangirls that post... the site is _asian_ass. The pictures aren't too bad.
I am so done now. That is why even though I like my buttsecks, I have distanced myself from a great deal of the yaoi fandom with the exception of Xenogears.