From old destroyed ashes, new things can flourish and begin again.
Once again, sorry for not updating. Life has been busy, what with work and such.. it's been hard. But despite a little sprig of sadness in the here and now, I find myself happy with how life is looking. I feel optimistic and unburdened, ready to face the world with hope.
When I was twenty-four, the end of a relationship was nearly the end of the world. At thirty-three, I find that the end of a relationship always is followed by a 'life goes on'. New people come into your life, old people go. Life is such a fluid thing, really.. and so is your experiences. Hold your head high and look forward; perhaps one day there shall be a time when you can look back and only remember the good, but until then.. stay strong and just quite simply live.
I did get some awesome piece of advice from a 50 year old women the other day (a patient actually from where I work) : "It is funny I've just realized this after two marriages, two divorces, and three children between them, that the only thing you need to look for while dating is this: on the first date, the person is putting on their best show for you. If they lie once or be rude or otherwise disappoint you while on their BEST behavior, they are going to disappoint you for the rest of the relationship and it will end terribly."
lol so true.
Life does go on~.
I've missed you so much :)