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Well I'm pretty much angry now and there's no getting over it because I have to sit there and look at Todd's face. We just had a dicussion on progress and evidentally Todd doesn't think that his boy child (who is not even a year old) should cry. In fact he is the most unprogressive piece of bullshit ever, I told him that it wasn't fair to expect Midori to want to roughhouse and play football if Soren couldn't cry. His response, "When Midori goes to school, the girls will beat it out of her because that's not the societal norm." (He just left the room, thank you gods above)

FUCK YOU TODD.

That is going to give his children a giant complex. By that logic alone, I am not supposed to like Mecha anime and I should sit at home and sew a fucking sampler because that is the societal norm, if I didn't hear such a giant crock of bullshit. WHY I DON'T EVEN.

REMEMBER KIDS, BOYS GO IN THE BLUE TAB, GIRLS GO IN THE PINK TAB. AND HEAVEN FORBID THEY SHOULD TRY TO CRAWL INTO THE PINK OR BLUE TAB.

I told him that he should be taught that it was okay to cry in his home, with his family whom he is vulnerable with, that it should be okay to show his emotions and his feelings, that he should talk and care and his response "Boys don't show their emotions" and then I was like "Well Todd why aren't you a marine then" and he was like "Because I'm not manly enough"

ASDFGHJKL*STAB*

He once told me that he doesn't consider me a girl. Well in that case, TODD IT MUST MAKE YOU FEEL WONDERFUL THAT SHU IS IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER MAN, HMMM? MAKES YOU FEEL SO MANLY AND MASCULINE DOESN'T IT?

My fucking god all mighty, words cannot convey the rage that I am feeling.

Gee, I thought we were running a progressive household here. EVIDENTALLY NOT.

I laugh when I hear the words 'social norms'.

God, if I followed social norms, I'd be married and have at least two kids by now. Oh hell no...

I hope somebody punches that guy real good. I hope it's a girl that punches him and makes it hurt badly just to show him how 'precious' his 'social norms' are.

Ugh. That's a compassion fail, a logic fail, and just a general sparkly firework show of FAIL all rolled into one. :|

Orz, that is such a backwards way of thinking he has. O_o

Dear Todd,

You are horrible.

No love for you ever,
Nasime

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It is so incredibly sad he actually thinks that way :( he sounds like one of those "this is the way the real world is!"/"that's just the way things are!" types, too -_- what a mammoth load of bullshit.

Thank goodness he isn't the only parent D:






I'm SO sorry you two have to deal with this man. But, of course, I feel the worst for those poor kids. -_- Parental failure at its best. When those kids meet the outside world, they won't know what the hell is what. That backwards thinking man is gonna scar them with a reality that doesn't exist. If he was abused as a kid, he should, under no circumstances, carry on that behavior to his kids. They'll grow up to be just like him, which is something none of us want. We have enough ignorant asshats as it is. I'm glad those kids have you and Shuu in their lives. Continue to convey all the love and support they need, 'cuz they sure as hell aren't gonna get it from dear old dad. I hope they cry on a daily basis. They need to learn that it's healthy and that bottling up emotions will make things worse in the long run.

Societal views changed decades ago, but that hasn't stopped some people from living in the past. We'll see how those kids will turn out once they reach teen years. I certainly hope they take you two's teachings to heart. I wish you luck.

That is one scary/incredibly dumb man, to think that your children have to deal with him makes me sad for them D:

Can I beat Todd to a pulp with my quad cane? Please? Please? pleasepleaseprettyplease?

Sheesh! I like to watch mecha. Hell, sweetie, I like to pilot mecha, as in play MechWarrior 4: Mercenaries! I suck at it, but it's sure as hell fun to do! I also like to cook, knit, crochet, cheer for the OTHER team, and take mental potshots at those career politicians who forgot how to do their jobs. Does that make me any less a female? Not in IMHO. My youngest likes to crochet, says it helps him relax. He sucks at it—his words—but that's how he unwinds after work and school. My middle son likes girly-type anime. Says it gives him some much needed laughs at times. Does that make them any less masculine? Not according to their lady friends.

So, yeah. Todd needs a good beat down. Or at least a good bash across the ass. As for his comment about his not being "manly" enough to be a Marine, how in the HELL does he explain all those women Marines? Are they too "manly" to be women? Oh man... find a group of WMs and point him out to them. ::snickers:: Hell, even one WM would clean his clock for him.

Give those little ones all the love, support, and encouragement you can, because they're sure as hell gonna need it with him around.

Real men are man enough to know that sometimes they have to cry. Gods what a maroon.

Screaming in a baby's face? Making mocking crying noises at him? That goes beyond being unenlightened or being a jerk. That sounds a lot like abuse to me. People lose their children for things like that, don't they?

Yeah, we had a talk with him about him, he's been better since both myself and Jennie ripped into him big time for it (we were so mad when that instance occured that we couldn't see straight) We will not tolerate that, we will not tolerate our children feeling any less loved. And even though one parent -is- the weakest link, yeah Jennie and I make two parents who are going to pretty much stay strong.