Someone in the Ouran Host Club community last night posted something about *to paraphrase* how "Kyoya evidentally likes Haruhi because no guy would threaten to rape someone that he didn't like". She did not put the addenum on 'in the anime world'.. she just posted that. Of course I got up to arms about that, because being a rape victim myself.. that is a bunch of bullshit. A guy does not threaten to rape a girl because he likes her, he threatens to rape her because it's all about power and control and thereby dominating that person. People like that sicken and disgust me quite honestly and rape is no laughing matter. EVER. I do not care if you like to read about it in your little smut-fics or whatever.. but if I hear anyone saying that rape = love.. I will fucking punt them off a cliff.
I don't like rape-sex.. even in fic, I don't find it romantic or poignant. But this is coloured by my own past expiriences and I can't even accept it in fantasy becasue the reality is still just ugh.