Zoicite☆For all I carry are murdered

jyuufish


"Cause I'll be lighting fires for you.."

~I'm there in the Light when you need me~


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Alice in Wonderland☆I must become
jyuufish
From old destroyed ashes, new things can flourish and begin again.

Once again, sorry for not updating. Life has been busy, what with work and such.. it's been hard. But despite a little sprig of sadness in the here and now, I find myself happy with how life is looking. I feel optimistic and unburdened, ready to face the world with hope.

When I was twenty-four, the end of a relationship was nearly the end of the world. At thirty-three, I find that the end of a relationship always is followed by a 'life goes on'. New people come into your life, old people go. Life is such a fluid thing, really.. and so is your experiences. Hold your head high and look forward; perhaps one day there shall be a time when you can look back and only remember the good, but until then.. stay strong and just quite simply live.

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I think this is awesome perspective to take...and I'm glad that despite work being busy and life being hard, you're feeling happy and hopeful. ♥

Yeah, I mean it's hard and I felt a pang when I discovered that she had blocked me from all social media sites and then I thought "well, you know.. I guess that's it then". I didn't cry, yeah I felt sadness but unlike when I was younger, the option to just fall apart is not available to me, nor would I want it even if it was.

:hugs: Miss you! But I'm glad you're doing okay even with crazy life things. Glad you can move forward!

I'm glad you are feeling better. I keep hearing from people in their 30s and 40s that when they look back at their teens and 20s and see what depressed them and causes them so much stress, they can't believe it was ever such an issue. I hope that kind of knowledge gets to me someday (knowing what is really important, instead of searching for it.)

I did get some awesome piece of advice from a 50 year old women the other day (a patient actually from where I work) : "It is funny I've just realized this after two marriages, two divorces, and three children between them, that the only thing you need to look for while dating is this: on the first date, the person is putting on their best show for you. If they lie once or be rude or otherwise disappoint you while on their BEST behavior, they are going to disappoint you for the rest of the relationship and it will end terribly."

lol so true.

It's already February. Hopefully this will be a much better year than the last one.

Life does go on~.

*hugs*

I've missed you so much :)

hey ! i am happy that you are happy!! don't apologize for not updating lj if you have had better things going on!

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